I understand your point of view but first my parents live here and they are elderly and don't want to move; my business is here; my girlfriend is here so I'm not going anywhere.
I wouldn't have even posted anything about this but I grew up in this town; three people I graduated with went on to become police officers in town; one of the girls I graduated with was the police chiefs daughter (actually he was the one who signed my first firearms ID). I just don't have patience for the police busting my balls for a simple change of address on my firearms ID card.
- Norm
As I understand yours Norm. I was ina very similar boat 20 years ago when a job opened up for a defense contractor in Colorado. My ex did not want to go, so i passed it up. There is a saying that goes, "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans." depending on where in NJ you are, living in a free state would just mean having to drive a couple hours to visit with your parents (1.5 in my case), or them having to do the same. The girlfriend? Well, maybe it will work out, maybe not, but it's in Gods hands on that one.
I ran a successful business back in NY until about 10 years ago, when the economy tanked, and the floor dropped out of the classic car market. Got sick a year later, almost died, and had to wait on Social Security for close to 5 years. by that poiint, i was married again with a kid involved. Neither one wanted to leave the little Podunk town we lived in due to jobs, friends, and some family. I also had a sick grandfather I was helping take care of where I lived, so the push to go was held off until after his passing. He helped me out when i needed it, so I owed him a lot more than just back rent. On top of this, I was helping two of my uncles to get back on their feet within the household after he passed. Family is what matters most IMHO, so again, i can see where you are coming from on this.
My point is, I had to pull up roots, put my family's future in His hands, and walk away from what I had known for 25 years when we moved out of state. It cost me almost all of my savings to do so, I also had to replace my primary driver due to different inspection standards, Rent a place in a city after 30+ years of living in the country, and my wife had to get a new job here. She worked for the school district where we lived, so sacrifices were made, and it was not just on a whim over one lousy GC law, or even an entire act. It was over bettering ourselves, and opening up a future in my daughter's chosen carrer path. There were no colleges in NY that offered a diesel tech program, and that is what she has chosen as her path. Wyotech is in Ohio, and UTI has a campus out by Philly. This was a better choice as she qualifies for student aid and other programs here that she would not get if we were still in NY.
My point is, it's not as easy to come to that kind of decision, and there will always be sacrifices that have to be made. Roads run two ways, so you can always visit, as they can, and, however knoble it may be, fighting a loosing battle is insane. NJ has a (Legal) firearms ownership rate of 12 percent, so get use to being treated like a common pile of dog $#!t by your states goverment if you stay, simply because you want to practice a right. When it comes to a fight that can not be won, the smart man pulls back and looks at his options, from simple to extreme.
Look at the preemption section of this page. Local authorities have the right to set whatever GC laws they wish, and with such a low amount of gun owners there, you can only expect more red tape if yoyu stay.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gun_laws_in_the_United_States_by_state#New_Jersey
Hope it works out for you in the end. I just wanted to make myself clear that leaving Ny was not my first option. It just happened to be my best option is all.