This is goodbye for a while...

Discussion in 'The Club House' started by trip286, Feb 28, 2012.

  1. trip286

    trip286 New Member

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    As I've suspected and feared, I've been neglecting my family. It's not the forum's fault, or anyone here, except for me. This forum isn't even the root of all the trouble, but still, I'm going to have to take some time off to try and save my marriage. As some of you know, I seem to be on here 24/7, and I pretty much am. Apparently I've descended into general douchebaggery as far as being a husband and a father goes, again, my fault and no one else's. I've allowed myself to be preoccupied with selfishness, and apparently, that's not good for a relationship. Who'da thunk it?

    So, I'm calling it quits for a while. Gonna be at least a few weeks at the absolute minimum before y'all see me on here again. Take care now.
     
  2. UrbanNinja

    UrbanNinja New Member

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    Good luck trip. Hope all works out well for you and the family.
     

  3. texaswoodworker

    texaswoodworker New Member

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    Yeah, hope everything works out Trip, We'll miss all your posts, humor, and knowedge. I'm glad you are not leaving for good, but we'll still miss you.
     
  4. Bear304inc

    Bear304inc New Member

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    You take care of your family first and foremost, we'll miss you, and await your return in due time,, dueces Trip.....
     
  5. winds-of-change

    winds-of-change The Balota's Staff Member

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    I admire you for seeing that your actions may be causing the problem instead of blaming. I also admire you for admitting to causing hurt to your wife and family. I wish you the very best in resolving these issues and saving your marriage. Work hard at it. I'll be thinking of you and wish for the very best outcome.
     
  6. Axxe55

    Axxe55 The Apocalypse Is Coming.....

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    best of wishes to you and good luck, as the others have expressed, you will be missed here, but we will await your return.
     
  7. Ranger-6

    Ranger-6 New Member

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    The need to communicate with our inner peace has been a problem for millions of people. What peace we seek I do not know nor do I understand. I get on the computer and seek information that I hope would change my life and make life easier to comprehend. It sort of like seeking God but not finding him. Many people seek peace to make their life easier; few go to music, some go to church, others go to the bar, many go to the internet.

    Actually, the internet is the cheaper channel to satisfy the quest of communication because it is here where people find other people who also seek peace, have like minds, same interests, and parallel beliefs. Some times our mate, spouse, or friend cannot fulfill the void of the depth we seek. I hope you find your peace with your family...
     
  8. pfev1980

    pfev1980 New Member

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    Everything in moderation brother. See you when you get things square.
     
  9. BunnyWabbit

    BunnyWabbit New Member

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    Good luck, but don't take all the blame on your shoulders. Sometimes there is a reason a person occupies their time on the computer too.
     
  10. bkt

    bkt New Member

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    Including moderation. ;)

    Go spend time with your family, trip!
     
  11. downsouth

    downsouth New Member

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    Trip you will be missed on the forum and as a friend. I am proud of your choice to concentrate on your family. Take the time you need, couple it with effort and understanding. Your family comes first, we are but mere disstractions. If there is anything I can do let me know, you have my information.
    So long for now my friend, Ty
     
  12. PanBaccha

    PanBaccha New Member

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    Good luck, Trip. See ya' tomorrow! :D
     
  13. silverado113

    silverado113 New Member

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    Hope it all works out for you brother.
     
  14. ellis36

    ellis36 Well-Known Member Supporter

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    First things first, always. Take care. We'll look forward to your return.
     
  15. theropinfool

    theropinfool New Member

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    Take care man. Good luck.
     
  16. canebrake

    canebrake New Member

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    We'll miss ya tripster. But a man gotta do what a man must!

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    Knee-mail inbound.

    God bless you and your family and may He mend all wounds.
     
  17. vincent

    vincent New Member

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    We'll be waiting for ya buddy, take good care. :)
     
  18. fmj

    fmj Active Member

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    I am SO going to remember and use that one!!!

    Hurry back Trippy, this family needs you too!!
     
  19. BlueTurf

    BlueTurf New Member

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    Trip, I have enjoyed your posts. I respect what you are doing and wish you well in taking care of your personal business. I know many others going me in saying we look forward to seeing you in here again.
     
  20. purehavoc

    purehavoc New Member

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    See ya when you get back brother , you know were all here if ya need to talk .
    Family first :D