I am going through this dilemma, my wife who is still new to guns, as I am but we do believe in protecting our home and 2nd Amendment Rights. So with that being said, here is our dilemma, 1st off she is left handed, secondly she has problems with our XD9 which I chose mainly because of its safety features, with her in mind. (Cuz she definitely doesn't like the mossberg 500) the XD is limited only to mag release button being ambidextrous. She had trouble with slide lock being made for a right handed person. My question is what would be more beneficial? A left handed semi auto handgun? If so what models are there? And finally would a revolver be a better choice for her? If so any recommendations? I'm interested in finding something she is completely comfortable and confident with.