Hi guys and gals I'm in need of some help. I've been doing countless hours of research on carry pistols for my wife. She is new to shooting and I'm trying to find the best handgun for her. I'm fairly certain that I have it down to the sig p232 and the hk p2000sk. I know they are different calibers (.380 and 9mm respectively), however I feel, and have heard/read, that they are the best of the best. my question is what do you think the recoil differences are between the two? If the hk is the same or better I'd like to get that one bc of the little bit better reliability and caliber. Also, my wife is 5'4" 135lbs so I'm assuming she would be able to IWB these comfortably in the first place (are these guns thick?) thanks for the much needed help.