I am thoroughly confused and have been for years about this so here goes. Im 25 and talking of women my own age. And I hope to God this all changes later. I was at a 4th of July party in Orange County. Now I didn't dress up for this or anything, but I still looked okay. Just beach shirt and shorts. Everyone was the same or in bathing suits. Now, Ill say Im a bit better than average in the face and smile department, and judging by the people around me, Ive got a decent enough personality. I know enough to know Im not a horrible uggo or a jerk, so that aint whats going wrong on me here. Anyway... at this party, Im having a good time... A girl smiled at me, I walked over, smiled back and said Hi, Im 'my name here'. She got a weird look on her face like I just slapped her and turned her back on me. I laughed to myself a little and it might of sounded a little harsh. She turned around and gave me a bad look so I just shrugged and walked off. 10 minutes later she finds me and wants to know why I DIDNT stay and talk to her. Suddenly she was a jabber box (and she took my drink without asking the jerk) I just walked off shaking my head, leaving her standing there with my drink with lips flapping. A little while later I take a bad step and bump into a girl. My hands and eyes both nowhere near a danger zone. I apologize and she calls me a few names and such and I just smile and walk off. Just a short while later her man caught up with me and asked why I was hitting on his girlfriend, and she was standing right behind him. I told them both I didnt and she starts yelling that I was asking her to go do you know what in the bathroom. What the hell... fortunately for me this was a friends house party. Then later on the first girl comes back and throws me this big apology, and wants to talk to me, to the point of lunacy- wont leave me the heck alone. Then to make it even better, the chick I had bumped into earlier and went nuts keeps throwing me the eyes and smile. I wouldnt bring this up but this kinda crap happens all the time to me, and is specifically why I dont want to date. And these arent women Im only meeting at parties or clubs, this is everywhere. And this is also why I hardly ever go out.