Food for thought?
You don't mention if he would like to stay with the 9mm format and if he likes a single or double action or move to something else, So I'm assuming the 9mm is the arena you are looking in and because of the age area you mention it is probably a double action version? That being said If he perfers a striker type pistol over a double action I recconmend a Glock and or my choice the Ruger SR-9 or even a P-89 double action? If he is into a double action then a (much higher end and money isssue)Kimber, XD Springfield, or possibly a Colt Defender. Again your question is so wide based it is hard to narrow down a particular caliber and or action , let alone a make or model that would be a good fit? You might just give him a gift certificate and let him choose or say HONEY let me go with you and we will get a SET together? Sounds as if you maybe into this more than hin anyway???
JMO
I'm glad you want to give your spouse a great gift. But first things first SAFETY is always an issue. Weather you have children in the house or not. Anyone can make a mistake?
You don't mention if he would like to stay with the 9mm format and if he likes a single or double action or move to something else, So I'm assuming the 9mm is the arena you are looking in and because of the age area you mention it is probably a double action version? That being said If he perfers a striker type pistol over a double action I recconmend a Glock and or my choice the Ruger SR-9 or even a P-89 double action? If he is into a double action then a (much higher end and money isssue)Kimber, XD Springfield, or possibly a Colt Defender. Again your question is so wide based it is hard to narrow down a particular caliber and or action , let alone a make or model that would be a good fit? You might just give him a gift certificate and let him choose or say HONEY let me go with you and we will get a SET together? Sounds as if you maybe into this more than hin anyway???
JMO