Hey All, I've always wanted to own a gun and this year I've decided to devote time to it. For my primary home defense weapon, I'm looking at either the Mossberg 500 or the Remington 870. I would also like to add a handgun for occasional conceal carry, backup home defense, and tactical handgun training. I'm looking for advice on the handgun I should purchase. Here are some of my criteria. 1. Tough and Reliable - I'm also pretty hard on my tools. My personality dictates that I won't be that great with cleaning the weapon. The weapon should be able to take a beating and keep on ticking. 2. Safety - when I do carry it concealed, I want to have the piece of mind that the weapon won't accidently discharge. 3. Conceal and comfort - I won't carry that much, but when I do, I don't want it noticable. 4. Usable - I should be able to easily draw and use the weapon (for the tactical training classes I plan on taking). 5. Looks good with some brand appeal (the hand gun purchase is as much hobby as anything else) Any advice would be welcome. Thanks!