Ok guys so for the last 6 months or so I've been letting my child hood best friend live with me. Now he said it was for a few months until January or do and he was supposed to get this job, but then something happened and it got post poned to April 1st well that came around and now its post poned again. Now grant it he helps out here and there and does alot of work that I don't have to do cleaning but he won't get a job and I pay for most everything. I already didn't want another room mate some of you know what happened with the last one I wanna be able to bring over a woman you know! So today I said to him "your my best friend yada yada and i always got your back yada yada but you need to get a steady job around here and move out I cannot pay for you to live also I'm sorry so can you please find a place to stay man." I know he can go stay with his parents but he proceds to flip out saying I'm an *** hole I'm just kicking him to the curb am I in the wrong here guys? I'm going around feeling like an a hole but haven't I helped him enough?