Hey everyone. As the title states i need some solid advice. Im not sure if this is a good place to post this but everyone on here is so nice and accomdating that i guess its worth a shot. Im 29 years old and have been married for 5 years. We have a 4 year old daughter who is the light of my life. Lately my father (whom i work with everyday) has been asking if he and his girlfriend can watch my daughter. My wife and i arent comfortable with it because they drink almost everyday. My dad functions at work and only drinks after work but he constantly drinks and drives. He did it with me as a child and i realize that its wrong. My problem is this, im afraid of him. He is a very large and intimidating man. Ive always been afraid of him and have never really talked to him about anything like this. Its causing serious stress for me and in my marriage. I dont know how to tell him without it starting a war. I just dont know what to do. My wife said she would tell him but i think it should come from me. Anyone with a similar situation? Please weigh in with your thoughts. Thank you.