Welp , back in 1998 , I made a promise to God and my mother-n-law ! My father -n-law passed that year . A week after , we , my Ex-wife and I made that lady a promise ! . She would never be put in a rest home . As some know , the wife and I split almost a year and a half ago . Eight weeks ago , Mom fell and broke leg . She is 93 , with extreme Alzheimer's , really bad . She can't do anything on her own , nothing ! My ex called six weeks ago and told what happened . She is close to the end . How close we don't know ! There was no way possible my wife could take care of her on her own . Hoyer lift and sling , Depends , the whole deal , SAD. ! I moved back in with them to make right my promise . Everything from changing diapers to feeding and keeping her clean and comfy ! Welp , my Mama did raise a fool ! Yo..... I've put all my problems aside and will help till the end . May dang well be the hardest thing I've done . All health care and nurses , I can not thank you for all you do , it is really a thankless job and a constant 24/7 ....! That's where I been , very very busy ..........oh yeah , I miss this place and I'll check in whenever I can !