Looking for a good all around semi auto hand gun for my fiancé. She is not very familiar with handguns and have only been shooting with me a few times. She had a ball and wants something for the range that can double as home protection (she is familiar with my HDS and AR's) so home protection is secondary. She has shot my ATI 1911 in .45 and .22 cal. She wAs able to handle the 45 accurately but she said its a little punchy for her comfort zone. She says the .22 is not enough. I have been thinking .380 or 9mm. I think she can handle the 9 and am sure she can handle .380. The cost of 9mm ammo is also a plus. This would not be something she would conceal and carry. Thoughts?