Hi, my GF is looking for a good carry gun. Every gun store she walks into trys to push a .38 revolver on her and when she tells them she wants a semi-auto, they stand there dumbfounded like a woman can't own anything other than a .38. At this point she has a S&W bodyguard .380 and hates it so much, she refuses to carry it. She says that the recoil is too much in order to actually enjoy, so that pretty much rules out a pocket piece. Anyway, she wants something chambered in 9mm, with a mid sized frame, easy to carry and has a manual safety. If anybody has any suggestions on something practical, she would love to hear it. Thanks guys. Also, single/double action, she hates DAO, I don't much blame her.