My ex belongs to a church and is a religion that requires that they do not wear pants or cut their hair. In our divorce decree it states that I will not require my daughter to wear pants but that if she asks to wear them, she can. A couple of weeks ago, my daughter asked for shorts so I bought them... Her mother always gives her the third degree when she gets home and my daughter told her that she wore shorts. Her mom asked to speak to me and my wife during which time she said that if my daughter will be allowed to wear shorts that she can never come over again and that we can call the police if we want to. She then left me a message stating that if we did not come to a resolution (her way) before Friday that my daughter would not be there when I picked her up. When I called her back she made me agree to remove all pants/shorts from my home or she would withhold my daughter. We spoke to a detective (friend of a friend) and he said that she could withhold my daughter until a Judge orders the police to do something. I did not want to put my daughter through not being Able to see me until a judge sorted that out. My question is....is there anything I can do legally to press charges against her for blackmail (do what she wants or don't see my daughter). I will be contacting a lawyer but I wanted to know if anyone has experience with this. We have been dealing with a ton of nonsense for over 8 years now....Thanks for any advice.