I've been out of the loop awhile (years). I do'nt post alot ( do'nt know a lot ). My wife was diagnosed with MS about the time I joined. She became completeltly bed bound, two weeks after I lost my job. I was her sole caregiver for five years . The doc refered her to hospisc (they are the best) . Our world was rocked and things went down hill fast after that. She was admited to the hospisc unit, this was the day after thanksgiving . December the ninth I was going to visit her and I crashed the van (a gaurdrail jumped out in front of me) I ended up in intensive care. While I was in there she passed away. Still hard to talk about it, but she is in a better place and out of pain now. Sorry this was so long thanks for listining. lost..