Ok, from what i've heard from everyone else pretty much, the .40 cal xd will have less recoil than a .45 xd. A buddy "informed" me that some guy told him the .40 will have MORE recoil, and is less accurate than the 45. That, to me, makes no sense. I want the .40 xdm, but supposedly it is less accurate than a .45. What do you guys know? Have you shot the 40 xd, 45 xd, and the 40 xdm?