So I've been doing a lot of exhausting reading on the subject of the 40 caliber, and am still left with the same question as when I started. I am entertaining the thought of adding a higher cal pistol to my collection, but, being a small guy, I take more things into account than some more experienced and larger folk might. Things like size, weight, and recoil. Any suggestions on which way I should go from those whom have experienced both in varying pieces? Currently looking at the Taurus MilPro Duo. 40 Thanks all.