My girlfriend is looking for a handgun. Semi auto, 9mm, target shooting and home defense, full size or compact, under $550 new, purple or pink or badass looking. She says she enjoyed shooting my M&P and her uncles ruger. I don't want to sway her opinion and have her get what I want. I want to be able to give her suggestions based on quality, and performance and let her make the choice. And give her suggestions on some guns that may fit her hands better then others so if any women could add some suggestions it would be appreciated.