I have the xdm40 3.8 and I love shooting this gun as well. Not a lot of recoil and very easy to line up to shoot. I hope the reviews I read on the xdm 45 3.8 are good because I think that might be my next gun. I'm torn between that and the Springfield emp 40.
You jump bail
I just got the 45 3.8 friday. Shot it over the weekend and the reviews are correct. Love it