When I posted on the Glock Forum that I was really happy with my ghost Trigger kit (smooth 3lb pull). There were some negative comments. I then posted "If working on your trigger is above YOUR pay grade---don't do it"
I think everyone should buy the pistol you like! I don't own an XDM but if one was too good a deal to pass up, I would buy one. I would not buy anything made by Taurus.