If you think you are anticipating the recoil, play flinch or fire. Have a partner take your pistol, and have him load a live round, or no round at all. Since you don't know if it's loaded, you'll pull the trigger expecting recoil, if there isn't a round in the chamber you'll see your self flich. Paly that every once in a while and you'll learn to ignor recoil and focus more on aiming.
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