You will bore yourself to tears trying to achieve the finish you want on SS using glass beads, walnut hulls or soda.
You will need to use something like Brown/White Aluminum Oxide, Silicon Carbide, Carbon Cut Wire, Cast Stainless Steel Shot or Steel Grit.
Media material, grit size and blast pressure will give you many choices of finish.
^ This finish was achieved on my SS Colt XSE using a relatively aggressive aluminum oxide at 90#. A less aggressive grit would produce a matte surface finish.