No playing the victim card, unless any explaining myself is doing so.
I basically sensed humor in your post and tried to respond with the same attitude, hoping you would see me joking and not actually being very serious. Though I must say I was testing the waters a bit as I did not know how you would react at all.
Anyway, I say this is all cleared up now and your response has been.. educational, to put it that way.
In general, I am the kind of person who might act with rough tone etc. as long as people will see that I am not too serious.
It's what most of my mates do.
(yup, this post turned out quite long.. )