You have an open ended question.
What do you plan on shooting? 4 legged beasts, 2 legged beasts, cans in the back yard, targets at 100 yards/500 yards/a thousand yards, or something else?
Each option will give a different answer to some degree.
As you have not mentioned reloading, nor will I (that is the best option in my view).
For hunting, beasts to eat, soft points.
Long/longer ranges are better served by heavier bullets.
Up close, anything under say 150 or 200 yards, it really doesn't matter as long as other needs are met, just about any weight of bullets will do.
So Ty, go with what you like or things you like.
I would try a little of everything to see what my weapon likes and go with that or those. But then, I only shoot my reloads.