so i think i have narrowed it down to three...
Remington 870 20 ga, which i would get a pistol grip buttstock for.
H&R Pardner Compact single shot 20 ga
Mossberg SA-20 tactical with pistol grip
they are all so different (pump, single shot, semi-auto) I might end up getting two.
or maaaybe (now that i just thought of it) the Mossberg 510 mini 20 ga.. so maybe i have four to pick from, lol. This is going to be a hard decision!!