I fixed that nagging thing once and for all recently by just getting my wife a nice lightweight bcm midlength with a cute round handguard and aimpoint T1. Just brought it home and said "gift for you. I dont do flowers". She was like wtf!?!?!!???
Took her out to the range she shot it then promptly went through all my ammo!! So i just bought her the 1000pack of airpulled ss109 from upammo. I told her it was coming and she already had em out of the box sitting next to the xl650 with the primer box next to em. When i got home.
I setup up the dillon and showed her how to operate it and she helped me proccess the brass and ended up loading her own lol.
I would suggest incorporating her into the hobby somehow. Instead of dinner and a movie we do range and dinner.
"Gun control: The theory that a woman found dead in an alley, raped and strangled with her panty hose, is somehow morally superior to a woman explaining to police how her attacker got that fatal bullet wound." — L. Neil Smith