For those that have heard this before, please excuse..........
If you are new to reloading, first thing to get is a copy of ABCs of Reloading- and read it before you buy anything. So you will have a feel for what the stuff is you're buying.
Getting started, one of the basic Lee sets is not bad, unless you are planning to reload for the entire 10th Mountain Division. Presses and dies rarely wear out, and you can score some bargains on ebay for common calibers.
Depends on what you want to reload- precision 6mm rifle for benchrest will need more "stuff" than reloading .38 Special wadcutters.
What we have here is... failure- to communicate.