There is a lot of diff between my 308 and 243. A lite load may recoil less but you will probably want to use a heavy load on deer. I think you should sight it in with the laod you will be using for hunting. She should have no problem handling the recoil from a 243. Rest assured if she shoots a deer she won't even feel the recoil.
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