I like the Dillon scale best, it's better than most for
measuring pistol ammo.
Lee is the least expensive system, and many like it.
Any well known name brand is good, competition
is stiff, so prices are very comparable.
A starter kit is OK, save a few bucks, but
over time here and there you're going to add things.
Get a couple really good reloading books new.
I like the Hornady and Lyman publications best,
but Speer and "ABCs of Reloading" are also good.