Make she she holds them. My wife is the same size. She can only really use the youth models well. Then, you run into lighter weight rifles which will increase felt recoil. Add limb saver.
Only centerfire my wife has shot is my AR. She handled that very well.
.243 or 7mm-08 are said to be light recoil. I would stay away from any caliber that is a long action or says "magnum."
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