I also have large hands and recently picked up a Springfield XD9 Subcompact for 429$ plus tax....
It Isn't tiny...., but still easily concealable with a t-shirt...
It shoots smooth like butter and comes with a 13rd and 16rd Magazine plus other goodies (Speedloader, Mag Holster, Holster)
Right now, I don't even need to holster it... I simply tuck it between my gun belt and jeans at 3 o'clock and it is very secure ..
Springfield XD-9 Subcompact
Taurus Model 605 .357 Mag
Winchester 1300 Rifled Deer Slug (Tactical)