Well, I can only advise on the XDS then.
Shot it. Hated it. Felt like a toy in my hands and the grip was so small I felt like I was strangling it to avoid launching it over my shoulder when I fired the damn thing.
Another of the wonders of the "put a safety on the trigger" group that some idiot from Germany developed, I hate the feeling and I think it leads to less accuracy for a lot of shooters.
The weapon was well built from what I could see. It didn't shake or rattle, fired fine and it hit what I was aiming at for the most part.
But if you gave me one right now the first I would do is sell it someone with a smaller set of hands and a Sprinfield fetish.
Good luck in your search.