Two that I have seen tested & consistantly perform well, both in penetration & expansion, are Corbon DPX with the Barnes Solid Copper bullet & Federal HST, but it is not made in .380 caliber.
Buffalo Bore has come out with a .380 which also uses the Barnes bullet & it did well also. I have not seen it tested in other calibers or even if it is offered in other calibers.
These tests were done, using a series of gallon jugs filled with water & with 4layers of denim taped to the front jug. When testing in water, divide penetration by 1.5 to get equivalent penetration in gel, as used by the FBI.