I would not buy my wife a purse on the internet. I am a loyal customer of midwayusa.com. But women are very picky about their purses. My wife carries a J-Frame. She uses a "Gun Toting Mama" purse. There are very good. But there are a bunch of different sizes, styles and colors. There is a zipper compartment for the gun with a built in holster that is interchangeable. The gun does not enter the main compartment where she keeps all her stuff. There is a steel cable in the strap so that it can not be cut.
My wife took a solid month of looking at purses at different dealers before she made a decision. It was about $100. But I like it because she is always armed. Forget about pocket carry. Ladies pockets are too small for any gun out there except maybe an NAA revolver.
I would be scared that I might accidentaly shoot myself trying to cop a feel if she used one of those bra holsters.
Romans 1:16 I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes: first for the Jew, then for the Gentile.