Well I have one it was my dads for years first pistol I ever shot, we usually just shoot 38 specials out of because there cheaper to get then full power 357 mags and they have less recoil. But I guess it also depends on the barrel length if you have a shorter barrel on revolvers they can kick harder as where I have a 5 inch barrel on mine and it really doesn't have any recoil. Also try looking at different way to grip the gun it might just be how your holding the gun in general.
I'd be able to give you better advice if I knew more.
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