Therewolf nailed it: RENT RENT RENT
I work a LGS/Shooting Range and we do lots of rentals to folks looking to buy. We usually have 6 different brands & models in 9mm, .40, .22 and .45. We also have a variety of .380 and several wheel guns for folks that want revolvers. We probably have @ 45 rentals available.
Best way to find out what suits is to shoot 'em and find what gives you the biggest smile-----that will be the one for you
. As always, JMHO & YMMV.