There are a lot of pistols which will meet your requests. One way to narrow down your options is to look at a sight which lists picture, prices and specs of the pistols. Take a look at www.budsgunshop.com
. They carry all the major manufacturers and are a good site to start with. Once you narrow down your list the next step is to try and find a range that rents pistols- some may look great on the web but may not fit your hands, or you may not like the action type (ie- double action only, single action, or a combination of both-SA/DA.) If you find a certain pistol that looks like it might work for you then ask again and maybe we can provide more input. Good Luck.
best wishes- oldandslow