Tripp Research, Inc. - 1911 Magazines
Scroll down to the 9mm and click. You need a 10R-9MM-RG. Cobra mags are the best you can buy and they may very well fix your FTF/FTE issue.
By old man, are you referring to your father? I wish my dad was still around so I could call him old man.
Hop over to the Introduction section and say hi.
You may want to post a thread in the 1911 section explaining your Commander issues. You will get far more replies than here.