If you choose the kel tec route your just as good with a p-11. If you lay a P-11 on top of a PF9 they are the same size. The .25" width in your pocket isn't enough to notice. The P-11 is a lot more robust than the PF9. There is no problem carrying a P-11 in my front pocket in cheap work jeans.
I have a Ruger P95 that I am really learning to love. The single action trigger pull is around 4Lb. By the time you get it broke in you will be able to have it cocked by the time you level it to aim. The DA trigger pull is difficult enough that I am comfortable carrying it with the decocker in the fire position. It comes with two 15 round magazines and you can get a 32 round for around $20. I carry it ITW and in a back brace.
"I do not aim with my hand; I aim with my eye. He who aims with his hand has forgotten the face of his father.
I do not shoot with my hand; I shoot with my mind. He who shoots with his hand has forgotten the face of his father.
I do not kill with my gun; I kill with my heart. He who kills with his gun has forgotten the face of his father."
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Last edited by Old_Crow; 09-23-2012 at 10:43 PM.