I would have to say xdm compact with a 460 rowland kit. Between 10-14 rounds of 44magnum level performance.
Next inline i would say xdm compact 45acp .
Colt new agent/defender 7+1 45acp.
While i like the idea of the springfield xds they really dropped the ball not making it 7+1
Then there is the soviet tokarev 7.62x25 very slim very powerful for its sixe round. Too much penetration and speed for practical self defense
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