Remember, Confucius say,
Man who spend day arguing with woman have no peace(?) at night!
I despise manual safeties, but is she is comfortable with them, then get her one. S&W 3913?? "Ladysmith"
History fails to record a single precedent in which nations subject to moral decay have not passed into political and economic decline. There has been either a spiritual awakening to overcome the moral lapse, or a progressive deterioration leading to ultimate national disaster.
If you think a strong military is expensive, think about what a weak one would cost