Closest I have to safe queens are my large bore revolvers. They're too big for concealed carry, too expensive to shoot on a regular basis, so they stay unloaded in their respective boxes. Magazine fed rifles are stored empty, but mags are loaded and at the ready, same with pistol mags. HD Rem 870 stays loaded, safety on. Carry guns are C1 24/7. Except for the piece I'm carrying, all of the above are secured in my safe.
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