Above is a link to a ballistics chart for handguns.
Keep in mind we are talking self defense and it is not the same thing as a police officer out in the field. The 357 is hotter than the 9mm in the 124/125 grain loading so the 357 Sig was born. The FBI recognized a need for a heavier round in the field and that is how the 10mm and th 40 S&W were born. The 22 mag in a pistol is close to the 22lr in a rifle and that is well known to be deadly. The problem with the 25 acp is there are few good pistols out there and a bunch of junk pistols. It is more powerful and more reliable than the 22 lr. All 3 rounds are underrated along with the 380. The 38 Supers were shipped to Mexico because they could not have 45's since it was a military round.