There's a reason Glocks are popular : reliability . If Tori Nonaka could shoot a Glock with small hands, so can your wife ( see video ) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7KnBDIbgbMk
Jim Cirillo recommended " coming around on the grip of a Glock a little if you need to , to get your finger squarely on the trigger .
If a woman wants simplicity, mild recoil, top reliability and passable power for home defense, the good old Smith & Wesson Model 10 M& P with heavy barrel is hard to beat . There's a stainless version that I recall is Model 64 ( ?) .
Funny Song : A Woman With A Gun
" Jim was in the honky tonk ;
He was blind from Cupid's dart ;
And he never saw the 12 guage ;
That stopped his cheatin' heart ;
Well you might think it's clever ;
And you might think it's fun ;
But there ain't nothin' funny ;
About a woman with a gun . "
-Novelty Country Song unfortunately done by anti-gun duo Pinkard & Bowden -