I believe that if you feel confident to purchase things she will use (versus the things you want her to use), you should let her decide.
Shoes, pajamas, underwear, swimwear, guns should be on a list that we allow the better halves select and not us.
"A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed."
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Life Member NAHC
Former President of the ECPT (Eifel Combat Pistol Team)