Hey ninevolt, did that help? Generally to tell which gun is best for you, is to shoot as many different types as possible. Some ranges have different pistols to rent for that purpose. What works for me, won't necessarily work for you. As far as caliber goes, many agree that bigger is better, which is why I carry a .45. I would never carry anything smaller than 9mm.
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