I got a PF9 for my wife about a year ago. She hates it, every time she fires it she releasees the magazine. I love it, weighs nothing, works flawlessly, fits in my vest pocket almost unnoticeably, has become my constant companion when going into town. Is it my preferred weapon for venturing into harms way? No, but my 12 gauge tends to chafe in a hip holster, and carrying it through Home Depot at port arms seems so showy. If I needed a handgun I'd rather have my Kimber, but it's just harder to carry. I guess, love the one you're with.