Originally Posted by rjd3282
Forgiveness must be asked for. You are not required to forgive if they don't ask for it. Just like you won't be forgiven by God if you don't ask for it.
Yes, you must repent and accept christ in your heart.
As for forgiving others I don't know they have to ask me for the forgiveness. I can forgive someone who I feel has wronged me in the past but is no longer in my life. It is more for my heart than their ears in that circumstance.
While you hold a grudge, the other person is out dancing.