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Old 03-17-2013, 06:48 PM   #621
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I most certainly am not!

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Old 03-17-2013, 07:37 PM   #623
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What did I do to my ex everytime she said she would "f**k that"? (and that was the language she used too).

I'd reply, "mmm, so would I."

These women who say such things, yet get mad at men for the same behavior (and yes, regardless of what you FTF women say, they're more the norm than the exception, IME), they get tired of that real quick. I personally have claimed that I would "f**k" nearly every man on TV, just to make my stupid ex shut her nasty hole. Turned out, she really would f**k nearly everything.

If your significant other says they would, chances are they really would. But real world is real world, and when it comes to the real world, they're more likely to pick a real world man or woman to f**k in the end.

If she'll openly admit she'd cheat on you with Sean Connery, she'll likely cheat with Joe Smith 2 doors down too. Same goes for men. We just don't openly say "I'd tap that" quite as much in our woman's company, because we know we'll catch hell for it.

"but if a man looks upon a woman with lust in his heart, he has already committed adultery" ~ Jesus Christ. Whether you believe in him or not, doesn't matter, still words of wisdom. And the same goes just as well for women.
My ex never said, "I'd 'do' her". He simply admired a beautiful woman. It didn't upset me at all.

And as much as I admire a man's body, I wouldn't 'do' anyone just for the sake of 'doing' a man. There's got to be more there for me than just physical attraction. I don't care how hot he is. And if I loved someone and he loved me back, I wouldn't care if he were 'hot' or not. The physical is definitely secondary to the emotional for me.

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WHAT WAS WRONG WITH HER?
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Old 03-17-2013, 07:57 PM   #624
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It seems like my wife and I can't get on the same page about anything. Kids, money, you name it. A lot of things she says annoy the hell out of me .... I sure hope thi s is normal ... we have a four year old li ttle girl and I don't want her to come from divorce

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I have no idea what was wrong with that chick. I thought she was a little different, but to do something like that is beyond inappropriate.

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Old 03-17-2013, 08:27 PM   #626
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It seems like my wife and I can't get on the same page about anything. Kids, money, you name it. A lot of things she says annoy the hell out of me .... I sure hope thi s is normal ... we have a four year old li ttle girl and I don't want her to come from divorce
Have you politely explained what things annoy you? If we're annoying each other, we just say it. But we also use terms of endearment that would be grounds for divorce in some households.....
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Since men and women are so different from each other we don't always see eye to eye. I know I personally have seen many relationships fall apart from lack of communication so I think that's a starting ground for everyone.

If your wife girlfriend husband boyfriend (really doesn't matter) is getting mad over something and is openly trying to discuss it with you,don't say things like f**k you or shut up or even ignore them. Just try to listen and be understanding.
If everyone did this I'm sure the divorce rate would lower.

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Since men and women are so different from each other we don't always see eye to eye. I know I personally have seen many relationships fall apart from lack of communication so I think that's a starting ground for everyone.

If your wife girlfriend husband boyfriend (really doesn't matter) is getting mad over something and is openly trying to discuss it with you,don't say things like f**k you or shut up or even ignore them. Just try to listen and be understanding.
If everyone did this I'm sure the divorce rate would lower.
personally i think the divorce rate would be lower if people got married for the right reasons in the first place. took me two divorces to figure that one out!
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Yeah we have explained it a lot to each other. Nothing ever seems to change. She wants another chil and I'm on the fence. We haven't had sex in over 2 months because I talk about it too much and don't show her enough affection. She loves facebook like a spouse ...... talks bad about me through my daughter sometimes and I really don't know what to do. I've got no place to stay if I leave but we have our good times too. Wtf!

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My ex never said, "I'd 'do' her". He simply admired a beautiful woman. It didn't upset me at all.

And as much as I admire a man's body, I wouldn't 'do' anyone just for the sake of 'doing' a man. There's got to be more there for me than just physical attraction. I don't care how hot he is. And if I loved someone and he loved me back, I wouldn't care if he were 'hot' or not. The physical is definitely secondary to the emotional for me.

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I have no idea what was wrong with that chick. I thought she was a little different, but to do something like that is beyond inappropriate.
That's beyond a little different... And past inappropriate...

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Since men and women are so different from each other we don't always see eye to eye. I know I personally have seen many relationships fall apart from lack of communication so I think that's a starting ground for everyone.

If your wife girlfriend husband boyfriend (really doesn't matter) is getting mad over something and is openly trying to discuss it with you,don't say things like f**k you or shut up or even ignore them. Just try to listen and be understanding.
If everyone did this I'm sure the divorce rate would lower.
I think I discussed the companionship inventory thing before. Good way to work out problems in any relationship...
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