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Old 11-28-2012, 06:48 PM   #281
Civil Disobedience-wherever there is authority, there is a natural inclination to disobedience. Oppression breeds Rebellion
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Old 11-28-2012, 06:54 PM   #282
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Old 11-28-2012, 07:02 PM   #283
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So im not sure if this was said but why does sex have to come with emotions? I dont need to feel loved to want to have sex with my wife but she needs emotional stuff to want it.......... so yeah its like a month between sex ....... and we r both 29 ..... im not sure how we r gonna make it
Ummm.... If you're wife doesn't feel loved, you got bigger problems... Women are different than men. And women are completely different from other women. You need a companionship inventory (mormon thing, don't ask) but it works if you do it right. Sit down and talk to each other about what's bugging you about your relationship and what you feel like you need/want from each other physically and emotionally, the tricky part is, you have to go into it willing to accept what she says and vice versa, and you have to do it without attacking each other.
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We continually tell each other what we want...... seems like nothing ever changes

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Well, that's the best I got...
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We continually tell each other what we want...... seems like nothing ever changes
Once a month and you're 29. That's not good. I don't care if I'm mad at my hubby. Sex is for fun and I can still be mad at him afterwards. I watched a show called "What the Bleep do we know" and it explained how when couples stop doing it, they don't feel the want to do it because physiolgically you don't crave it. The more often you set aside time for it and do it, the more your brain chemicals want to do it. Maybe you could take her to a counselor and they'll tell her the same thing. A marriage isn't only about sex but the difference between being married and just being friends is sex.....you should definitely work on it before it gets worse. I wish you luck.
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I dont mean to be a pessimist but its as bad as its going to get. Ive considered divorce more than a little. Its once a month if im lucky. Marriage is hard. I stay because of my four year old.

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Girl may be depressed or something; it doesn't seem unreasonable to consult an outside party like a doctor/therapist.

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