Originally Posted by rurak
So im not sure if this was said but why does sex have to come with emotions? I dont need to feel loved to want to have sex with my wife but she needs emotional stuff to want it.......... so yeah its like a month between sex ....... and we r both 29 ..... im not sure how we r gonna make it
Ummm.... If you're wife doesn't feel loved, you got bigger problems... Women are different than men. And women are completely different from other women. You need a companionship inventory (mormon thing, don't ask) but it works if you do it right. Sit down and talk to each other about what's bugging you about your relationship and what you feel like you need/want from each other physically and emotionally, the tricky part is, you have to go into it willing to accept what she says and vice versa, and you have to do it without attacking each other.