[MrWray]

LMAO, i meant wife....not wide

[orangello]

Originally Posted by Zombiegirl

I am very outspoken and he knows exactly what I want. No cryptic messages from this girl.

That is a good girl!


OK, my pet peeve is stupidity (not ignorance) that i failed to notice early enough in the relationship. Stupid women get boring REALLY quickly. Another pet peeve is the "pretend dummy" who thinks it makes her more attractive to not know how to do some things (kinda the flipside).

Worst of all is behind-the-back manipulation; for good ends or not, manipulating someone you are intimate with is not cool, no matter what her mother taught her. I am a grown-up; deal with me as such or GTFO.

[Zombiegirl]

Originally Posted by BigByrd47119

What does he do for a living? I have know several friends with the exact problem you are having with him and they eventually stopped their addiction because of either work or women (usually a new woman having not had one previously). Dunno what other advice to offer other than "drastic measures."...

He is a welder and works in hydraulics etc. I know he's hot and tired when he gets home, it's just frustrating. "drastic measures" don't work. I don't mind him enjoying the games, I would just like to be equally enjoyed.....

[Zombiegirl]

Originally Posted by MrWray

Sorry :-)

Mmmm, one of my pet peeves is whenever my wide moved in with me "just girlfriend then" she is the one that decorated everything.which is fine, but i dont have any say so on where anything goes anymore. If i try to put something somewhere,she will just take it down. Alot of times i will think something looks good but she wont want any part of it :-/

That stinks. You should have some input on decorations..... But I guess you have to choose your battles.

[Zombiegirl]

Originally Posted by orangello

That is a good girl!

OK, my pet peeve is stupidity (not ignorance) that i failed to notice early enough in the relationship. Stupid women get boring REALLY quickly. Another pet peeve is the "pretend dummy" who thinks it makes her more attractive to not know how to do some things (kinda the flipside).

Worst of all is behind-the-back manipulation; for good ends or not, manipulating someone you are intimate with is not cool, no matter what her mother taught her. I am a grown-up; deal with me as such or GTFO.

I hate when I see women play dumb to try and look cute as well. Manipulation is crap too. Playing games is for kids.

[orangello]

Originally Posted by Zombiegirl

He is a welder and works in hydraulics etc. I know he's hot and tired when he gets home, it's just frustrating. "drastic measures" don't work. I don't mind him enjoying the games, I would just like to be equally enjoyed.....

Perhaps some cosplay, maybe a "Rosie the Riveter" throw-back? Alternatively, i can imagine how a female could easily convert her maidenly form to resemble a video game controller, especially the old N64 ones. "This button makes me go fast; this button makes me jump; that button gets you smacked upside the head...

[Zombiegirl]

Originally Posted by orangello

Perhaps some cosplay, maybe a "Rosie the Riveter" throw-back? Alternatively, i can imagine how a female could easily convert her maidenly form to resemble a video game controller, especially the old N64 ones. "This button makes me go fast; this button makes me jump; that button gets you smacked upside the head...

You're funny. We don't have problems there. I just get agitated when he puts on a show I didn't want to watch in the first place and then goes to sleep.

[Fathead00]

The best thing to do is, don't say anything because then it starts an argument. That's the secret!

[orangello]

Originally Posted by Zombiegirl

I just get agitated when he puts on a show I didn't want to watch in the first place and then goes to sleep.

EXACTLY why i gave up the drunken Tarzan routine, too long and involved without a big finish.

[orangello]

Originally Posted by MrWray

LMAO, i meant wife....not wide

Quoted for posterity (not posterior); never know when she will log in here and check your old posts.